My About Page
My name is Craig J. Phillips and I sustained a traumatic brain injury in 1967 in a motor vehicle accident when I was 10 years old. In the car accident I sustained an open skull fracture, right frontal lobe damage, a severe brain bruise (coup contra coup) with brain stem involvement. The injuries to my brain resulted in my remaining in a coma for 3 weeks. The Dr.’s did not expect me to live the night of the accident. I also sustained a fractured left femur (thigh bone) at the time of the automobile accident. I remained in traction for 7-8 weeks to set the femur and then placed in a spica or full body cast. I remained in that cast for an additional 4-5 months.
In 1967 there was not much in the way of neurological rehabilitation. With hard work, determination, tenacity, persistence, encouragement from my family and most of all the grace of God I taught myself how to walk, talk, read, write and speak in complete sentences. After the spica cast was removed and I had begun to walk again I underwent several EEG’s and a battery of cognitive and psychosocial testing. I was mainstreamed back into elementary school in the 6th grade. The results of the testing were shared with my parents, however they elected to not share the results with me. Nevertheless, the impact of traumatic brain injury and my invisible disability would continue to hamper my life.
Some 29 years later, upon obtaining my graduate degree in rehabilitation counseling my Mom disclosed to me the test results of the EEG’s and other testing done in 1968. Although I was not expected to succeed beyond high school academically, I went on to obtain my undergraduate degree (in 10 years) and my graduate degree (in 5 years). My undergraduate degree was in theology from Oral Robert’s University and my graduate degree was from the University of Kentucky. Nevertheless the many struggles that I encountered during the course of obtaining both my undergraduate and graduate degrees were never considered to be the impact of the traumatic brain injury that I sustained when I was 10 years old.
Because the impact of the injury to my brain remained hidden, I continued to buy into various denial systems. Because I bought into and defended these denial systems, I internalized my struggles. Consequently — for many years — I felt like a man all dressed up with no where to go. Although I diligently applied myself to my studies and career pursuits, I kept running into walls. What I had been striving to accomplish — through my efforts — was not working and I had no idea why my life was not working. Because I had a long history of getting and losing jobs – despite my diligence and hard work – I applied for SSDI and after my 3rd application. I was approved to begin receiving benefits some 13 years ago.
Nevertheless, I continued to look for ways to to use what I had to give that ways that would work for me. I wrote a book, Table Topics for the Soul — Journey to the Heart. I registered the book with the library of congress, but could not get the book published. I then wrote an autobiography, with a similar result. I continued to write and share my material with friends. One of those friends encouraged me to start a blog, as he put it, “Your material is ripe for a blog.” On February 6, 2007, with the encouragement of a friend I created Second Chance to Live http://secondchancetolive.wordpress.com/ to share my experience, strength and hope — to encourage, motivate, empower and instill hope in people faced with adversity in their lives.
February 6, 2012 was Second Chance to Live’s 5 year anniversary. During the past 5 years I have written a total of 879 to date. Articles from Second Chance to Live can be found with in my Site Map for my Articles, which is located at http://wp.me/P3atD-1H. To assist individuals who learn better through watching and listening, instead of by reading – I created a You Tube channel to share the video presentations of my articles. I use these video presentations to present my articles. A list of my video presentations can be found with in my Site Map for my You Tube Video presentations, which is located at http://wp.me/P3atD-3B3. To date I have created a total of 53 video presentations.
Several months ago I began creating and uploading video presentations to God Tube — a service which is similar to You Tube — to serve a different audience. To date I have created and uploaded 10 videos to God Tube. I would invite you to watch one of these presentations, by clicking on the following link my friend. Second Chance to Live – Don’t Give Up!
During the past 5 years Second Chance to Live has met a unique need, both nationally and internationally. Second Chance to Live has also been honored in many ways. To see a few of those ways, please click on the following links. As you read the various pages and questions or comments come to mind, please let me know my friend. Thank you.
Site Map for Interviews and Guest Radio Appearances
WTC U.S. Army AW2 Community Support Network
Euroacademia Multidisciplinaria Neurotraumatologica EMNe.V-Links
Second Chance to Live and the American Association of Neuroscience Nurses
Second Chance to Live and the Australasian Rehabilitation Nurses’ Association
Second Chance to Live and CDS at the University of Hawai’i at Manoa
Second Chance to Live and Intute
Second Chance to Live and the Brain Injury Association of Canada
Second Chance to Live and The Brain Injury Association of New Zealand
To read a more detailed account of my journey thus far, please read my 7 part series My Journey thus Far.
Here a the links 7 parts of my series, My Journey thus Far.
I want to thank you for being a friend of Second Chance to Live. I look forward to being of service to you and your family. In the event that I can be of service, please let me know. I look forward to hearing from you. I will say so long for now, but before I do let me share some of my favorite quotes with you. As you read these quotes, may you be encouraged to follow your dreams, to trust the process, a loving God and yourself. Be encouraged my friend, more will be revealed to us in time. Be encouraged my friend, our circumstances are not meant to keep us down, but they are meant to build us up.
“For I know the plans that I have for you – says the Lord – plans for good and not for calamity to give you a future and a hope.” Jeremiah 29:11 Old Testament
“Do not wait for leaders, do it alone, person to person.” Mother Teresa
“If you advance confidently in the direction of your dreams and endeavor to life the life that you have imagine…you will meet with a success unexpected in common hours.” Henry David Thoreau
“Do not judge your day by the harvest you reap, but by the seeds that you plant.” Robert Louis Stevenson
“Insist on yourself, never imitate. Your own gift you can present with the cumulative force of a whole life’s cultivation; but of the adopted talent of another you only have an extemporaneous half-possession…Do that which is assigned to you, and you can not hope too much or dare too much.”Ralph Waldo Emerson
“You don’t have to be a person of influence to be influential. In fact, the most influential people in my life are probably not even aware of the things they’ve taught me.” Scott Adams — American Cartoonist
“Everyone is trying to do some thing big, not realizing that life is made up of small things.” Frank A Clark
“I have heard that the journey of a thousand miles begins with the first step. Once we start walking on that journey, before long we will be able to look back and see how far we have come on our journey — because we did not give up.” Craig J. Phillips MRC, BA
“…You see, in the final analysis it is between you and God; it was never between you and them anyway.” Mother Teresa
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Walter Baxter said
Good Afternoon
I got to here about your website through (bian)
I have inserted a link to your excellent website on our Personal Experances Page is it ok to keep it there?
All the best Walter
secondchancetolive said
Certainly Walter. I am honored by your doing so my friend. I am available to be of service. Please do not hesitate to contact me with any questions or concerns Walter.
Have a pleasant and rewarding week and God bless both you and your family Walter.
Craig
David H said
Well done sir.
secondchancetolive said
Thank you David. God bless you Sir.
Craig
Marylin said
I am a social worker with the Brain Injury Association of Virginia. I’ve enjoyed reading your site and will pass the link along to others
secondchancetolive said
Hi Marilyn,
Thank you for passing on my link on to the individuals that you work with and to those that you seek to serve Marilyn. I am available to be of service. If you have any questions, please do not hesitate to contact me. Thank you.
I will say so long for now.
Have a pleasant and rewarding week and God bless both you and your family Marilyn.
Craig
Calvin said
Excellent website, I have enjoyed reading your post. I will pass it on to others.
secondchancetolive said
Hi Calvin,
I hope you have been doing well my friend. Thank you for your words of encouragement and for passing Second Chance to Live on to your friends and family. I am available to be of service to you and to those individuals. Please do not hesitate to reach out to me. I will reach back to you Calvin. You are a blessing to me Sir.
Have a pleasant evening and God bless you and your family Calvin.
Craig
Nigel Hughes said
Hi,
thanks for your encouraging comments. I would be really interested in getting a copy of your book, Table Topics for the Soul — Journey to the Heart. Do you know where I can get my hands on one?
thanks,
Nigel
(a fellow-TBIer)
secondchancetolive said
Hi Nigel,
Thank you for your interest in obtaining a copy of my book. My book and material on Second Chance to Live is copyright 2007, and registered with the Library of Congress, however neither have been published. Therefore I am unable to provide copies of my book or my work to the public. If you know of a publisher, please have them get in touch with me via a comment and I will get in touch with them. Thank you Nigel.
Craig
Laura Benjamin said
Hi Craig,
Since you are such an inspiration to others, I am going to add “Second Chance to Live” to my blogroll and hope that will help you spread the word. Keep up the good work!
Laura
secondchancetolive said
Hi Laura,
Thank you very much for your kindness. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving. God bless you and your family.
Craig
Chris Ratliff said
Craig,
I got an email from you a few months back and finally got around to visiting your site. What an inspirational story. Thank you for letting us know about your site.
Chris
Editor, MSFocus
The Multiple Sclerosis Foundation
secondchancetolive said
Hi Chris,
Thank you again for your email several years ago. I wanted to let you know that Second Chance to Live http://www.secondchancetolive.wordpress.com is available to be of service to you, your staff and the individuals that you serve. Second Chance to Live presents information to encourage, motivate, empower and provide hope to anyone who has experienced any kind of trauma, abuse or adversity.
To date I have written 672 articles. In the past 3 3/4 years articles from Second Chance to Live have been published on 16 different occasions through out the United States, Canada, the United Kingdom, in Europe, through out Australia and New Zealand. If you get the opportunity to stop by to visit with me on Second Chance to Live your presence would be welcomed and honored my friend.
I look forward to being of service to you.
Have a pleasant and rewarding week and God bless you and your family Chris.
Craig
secondchancetolive said
Hi Chris,
Thank you for your time and kindness. I appreciate your kind words.
Have a simply amazing day!
Craig
Jennifer Mannion said
Hi Craig, I got here through Liara who reads your blog regularly. You have a very inspiring story and I am so happy to hear of your successes. I had invisible illnesses as well (fibromyalgia, benign hypermobility syndrome, chronic mono) and chronic pain FOR YEARS and healed myself by learning of the mind/body connection and the law of attraction. There are publishing sites such as http://www.lulu.com that might help and are free for basic services. I made my story into an e-book which allows for me to offer affiliates to sell it and for me to update it as well… I think your story is an important one to get out there.
I’d love it if you can check out my blog and if you ever wanted to do a guest post I would be honored.
Gratefully,
Jenny
Second Chance to Live : The Brain Injury Association of Canada said
[...] read my Professionals Page>/a>. You may also gain further insight into my journey by reading my About Page. Although I was not expected to live the night of the car accident in 1967, or succeed beyond high [...]
secondchancetolive said
Dear Brain Injury Association of Canada,
Thank you so very much for publishing my article on your web site. I am truly honored and look forward to being of service to your readers. Please let me know if I may be of service to the Brain Injury Association of Canada. I look forward to the opportunity.
Have a terrific Tuesday and thank you again for your kindness.
Craig
Zoe said
Dear Craig
Thank you for sharing your inspirational story – I will think about it and consider who best to pass it onto, we have a lot of occupational therapists here working with people with brain injury and I am sure they will find your story as important as I did.
Best wishes from the UK
Zoe
secondchancetolive said
Hi Zoe,
Thank you for your time and kindness. You are a blessing to me. Thank you. I look forward to being of service to you and the occupational therapists that serve brain injury survivors and their families. Please do no hesitate to let me know how I may be of service my friend. I am available.
I will say so long for now. Have a simply phenomenal day and God bless you and your family Zoe.
Craig
Debbie said
I just found your website and really enjoy it. After my son’s brain injury in 2008, I’ve noticed that he has no self esteem anymore. He was always smart in school and things are a bit different, but not a whole lot. He still won’t look for a job because he fears he can’t do it. He is 20 years old now, and I’m completely supporting him and his girlfriend along with my other 4 children. He needs to get back out there. Is there anything we can do to help him get his confidence back?
Thank you!
Harold Langendoen said
yes it is so true i look normal but people don`t see a wheel chair or all the rehad i had to go through i still have memory probs long and short balance is an issue and fatigue. my wife treats me different not a husband but a care giver care taker roles so lonely. i just wished i could move out on my own . I did rahab a few years later too in a bigger city Regina and really loved it. mine was a closed skull so they put in a bolt to moniter the pressure in a coma 5 weeks and a very long road back the doc did not think i would live and later said to look for a home not expecting me to be more than a veggie state. some time i wish i had died `cause i feel of no value to any one so why did God not just take me then instead of the issues we both are dealing with now.
Second Chance to Live said
Hi Harold,
Thank you so very much for taking the time to write to me my friend. Thank you for sharing what you did with me. I hear your frustration. In my experience, I felt trapped too in many ways — and still can feel trapped in ways if I let what I do not see happening in my life impede what I can do with my time. I believe life is a journey and not a destination. I believe that society has hammered in to us males that if we are not the hunter/ gatherer that our lives do not have meaning substance or significance.
In my experience, my friend, I have learned some lessons through my experience that have helped me tremendously. I have written several articles — as listed in my Site Map for my Articles http://wp.me/P3atD-1H — that helped me to feel less trapped Harold. Could I encourage you to read those articles? I will include links to those articles below my friend. Please take your time reading through these articles — at your own pace my friend. As you read these articles and questions come to mind, please ask. All questions are good questions my friend.
If you would like to speak with me, I can give you a call if you send me your phone # Harold.
I will say so long for now. Have a peaceful day my friend and God bless both you and your family Harold.
Craig
Hope, Encouragement and the Parable of the Cracked Pot Part 1
Hope, Encouragement and the Parable of the Cracked Pot Part 2
Hope, Encouragement and the Parable of the Cracked Pot Part 3
Traumatic Brain Injury — THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS FAILURE! Part 1 of 3
Traumatic Brain Injury — THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS FAILURE! Part 2 of 3
Traumatic Brain Injury — THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS FAILURE! Part 3 of 3
Traumatic Brain Injury and Overcoming Denial — Part 1
Traumatic Brain Injury and the Grieving Process — Part 1
Traumatic Brain Injury and the Grieving Process — Part 2
Traumatic Brain Injury and the Grieving Process — Part 3
Traumatic Brain Injury and the Process of Grieving — Anger and Resentment — Part 4
Traumatic Brain Injury and the Grieving Process — Awareness– Part 5
Traumatic Brain Injury and the Grieving Process — Acceptance — Part 6
Traumatic Brain Injury and the Process of Grieving — Action — Part 7
Brain Injury, Self-Esteem, Self-Respect and Significance
Traumatic Brain Injury — I began to heal when… Part 1 of 4
Traumatic Brain Injury — I began to heal when… Part 2 of 4
Traumatic Brain Injury — I began to heal when… Part 3 of 4
Traumatic Brain Injury — I began to heal when… Part 4 of 4
Traumatic Brain Injury — I began to heal when…Part 5 of 5
Traumatic Brain Injury, Fatigue, Anxiety, Anguish and Depression Part 1
Traumatic Brain Injury, Fatigue, Anxiety, Anguish and Depression Part 2
Traumatic Brain Injury, Fatigue, Anxiety, Anguish and Depression Part 3
Traumatic Brain Injury and Learning how to Love and Accept Myself
Traumatic Brain Injury and Learning how to Love and Accept Myself Part 2
Traumatic Brain Injury and Learning how to Love and Accept Myself Part 3
Traumatic Brain Injury and Learning how to Love and Accept Myself Part 4
Traumatic Brain Injury and Learning how to Love and Accept Myself Part 5
Craig
Craig J. Phillips MRC, BA
Second Chance to Live
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